YOUR LIFE IN A FLASH...

I honestly said I wouldn't say a word concerning this on my blog 'cause I don't want to be the bearer of bad news but I just haven't been able to get it out of my head. Coupled with the short story my pastor told on Sunday, I just knew I had too spill it out. He told the story of the tortoise's 3 sons whom when asked when they each would become wise replied.

1st son: When a particular thing happens to me twice, by the third time I would have gotten a hang of it.
2nd son: When it happens just once, I would understand.
3rd son: When it happens thrice to my 1st brother and once to my second, I'd definitely know it all.
Smart guy, isn't he? You bet he is! So I hope that with the "aproko" I'm doing now, other girls would learn a thing or two from the fatal mistake of a girl who's story I'm about to share.....
Actually, it's not like it's breaking news at the moment but it was all over facebook and twitter only last week. It sent chills down my spine....a girl was killed by her "supposed boyfriend" 'cause he caught her in bed with his best friend. Pictures were gory, I couldn't look at it twice.

I FEEL SO HORRIBLE. I didn't know her but it still hurts cause now she can't retrace her steps and I don't even want to begin to imagine the kind of hurt her family and friends are going through right now. Who can you trust now, when even boyfriends kill their girlfriends in a moment of  mad frenzy.
Some people would come with the twisted philosophy that it was her time to go but we all know her death could have been prevented. She made a mistake yes and  it cost her life but I'm in no position to judge her.
I can only hope that other girls would "shine their eyes" and be careful enough to know just who they call "boo boo." On the flip side, here's one more reason to not just jump into bed with anyone!!! (husbands exclusive).
" And inasmuch as it is appointed unto men once to die, and after this cometh judgment" Hebrews 9:27, I think the text is pretty much self explanatory and thankfully I don't have to do much talking, erm typing....no blogging, yeah whatever, you get the drift dontcha?
We have to be prepared, it could happen any time, I mean no one prays for calamity but still...
I'm still in somber reflection and I think it would help to know just what I am doing exactly, both right and wrong.
To the family of the deceased, I pray God to grant them the fortitude to bear this great loss and my heart felt sympathy is going out to them in this very trying time.
....plus a minute silence for the soul of the departed. May God have mercy on us all.